You didn't change the dadabik_main_file variable in config.php? DaDaBIK appends the databik_main_file to the site_url/path when writing redirections. Including the "index.php" in your path variables would make your URL http;//threerobots.com/manage/index.phpindex.php..... which would not make sense to the server.
If you would provide me with an admin userID and password (offline direct to my email with the subject including your domain name and DaDaBIK Forum id, I'd be willing to have a look at this for you.
If this is not something you're comfortable with, post here the URLs from the address bar for:
1--- URL in address bar when viewing the edit record page (prior to editing)
and
2--- URL in address bar after edit has been submitted
Perhaps it may be enough to see the URLs to see where the problem may be.